Avoid these regrets at your gay wedding:

• The day went so fast! – Your wedding day will fly by so don’t be caught in a situation where you don’t remember anything. Plan and prepare your wedding well before hand and on the day just relax, take everything in, pace yourself and enjoy it.

• Mingling with the guests – Try to get round each table as early on in the evening as you can and thank your guests for coming. This way you won’t feel like you are spending the entire day and night trying to please everyone else. It’s a good idea to hang around by the entrance to your evening reception venue to greet your guests as they come in.

• Thank you’s – If you know you want to personally thank someone special such as your wedding planner or your parents during a speech then make a note of it. You won’t be able to turn back the clock if you forget and you may feel very guilty afterwards.

• Honeymoon Blues – To avoid feeling blue about a not so exciting gay honeymoon destination then consider saving money in other areas to enable you to spend towards a rather more luxurious honeymoon package.